Sometimes dissolving or cutting the cord is not enough.
Sometimes being aware of the pain and wound is not enough.
Sometimes being aware of the role we play or they play is not enough
Sometimes reclaiming our power back is not enough
At time's we have been called to forgive ourself
To forgive ourselves for the moment we consciously or unconsciously hurt others.
Sometimes we also have to release and forgive ourselves for the narrative that we have chosen to tell others and to tell ourself
At times we release the karma and request Divine intervention for pardon
To have played both roles to have been those who hurt others in any capacity and also that we allow to hurt us
Most importantly we forgive ourselves for holding back and being blind so we couldn't see the lesson and master the cycle.
To learn to release ourselves from ourself
From our lack, from our fear, from ourselves, from
Our lack of healthy love, from survival skills and from any emotion, nurture in lack, agony, distress, revenge, and bitterness that build our narrative
Not just cut or dissolve the cords
Forgive yourself and release the karma